Pisces-Scorpio Match

The Pisces-Scorpio match is a well-made one. This is a once in a lifetime, magical union that most of us wish for, and few find. These two signs are charged with emotional energy, and that makes for a wonderful connection full of romance, passion, and a very high sex drive. Both signs are outwardly emotions, something that is fulfilling for both of you. This is a match that is not often seen, and very often envied by all around them.

This is the best match in the Zodiac for both of you. You truly do compliment each other in ways that no other sign could ever do for you. You understand each other intuitively, and Scorpio brings a solidity to the relationship that Pisces so longs for. Scorpio reminds Pisces of why there are on this earth, and Pisces compassion soothes Scorpios emotional storms and strong passions.

Once you find your match in the other sign, it is very hard to stay apart from them. Though you may separate for whatever reason, you won’t be able to stay apart. You draw each other like you are magnates, and like magnates, are very hard to part.

Both signs like to withdraw into themselves in introspection, and understand that in their partner. They give each other the space they need to be the individuals that they are. Both signs tend to be intuitive, and understand humanity well. Scorpio provides Pisces the rock they need to build their dreams on, and this stability is something that Pisces longs for in their partners. Each sign is so fulfilling to each other, that this match is one that is almost fated to happen, and once started, to last a lifetime.

In this relationship, if the man is a Scorpio, and the woman a Pisces, he truly is her refuge in a storm. He is passionate and emotional in ways that she longs for. He is also very protective and strong, something this Pisces girl needs in life. Your physical chemistry will be off the charts hot, and because you are both very passionate signs, this will never be a problem in your love life. You both are very intuitive, and seem to know what the other is thinking without having to say a word. This is ideal for quiet Pisces, who loves to communicate non-verbally. The only thing that could trip up this partnership is the tendency by both to be a bit possessive of the other. If you can learn a little understand of this, you will be matched for life!

When the converse is true, and the man is a Pisces and the woman is a Scorpio, passion runs free in this relationship. Still waters run deep in this man, something that is immensely attractive to a Scorpio woman. He is passionate, loving, and understanding in a way that is almost divine. Your intense emotional needs are met well with each other, and you are able to fulfill them in the other in ways that no other sign is able to. He is a dreamer, with an enchanting way of looking at the world that both inspires and excites you in ways you never imagined possible. He is both loyal and so passionate about you in ways that make you feel as though you have found ‘the one’ right away, and you have!! Only he is able to give you the depth of emotion, something that Pisces is so famous for, that you really need in life.

These two signs steady each other out, with Pisces being very giving and compassionate, and Scorpio being intense and a little needy. Though their long term aspirations in life can be fairly different, they are able to compromise and come to an understand that is mutually satisfying for both signs.

Pisces is ruled by both Jupiter and Neptune. They give Pisces a dreamy, ethereal energy that loves culture and change. Scorpio is also ruled by two planets, Mars and Pluto. Mars is the ancient God of War, giving Scorpio courage, daring, and in some cases belligerence. Add Pluto, who gives the idea of new beginnings, and Scorpio can be pretty rough around the edges. Pisces is able to smooth those edges out with their empathy, compassion, and giving nature.

Both signs are Waters signs, which are very compatible as both are tangible, and very emotionally aware. Pisces helps Scorpio have a more open-minded approach to life, as Scorpio tends to be a bit of an absolutist. Scorpio needs to be careful, and let Pisces have a bit of freedom to swim around a bit, as they will suffocate under Scorpios demands without some freedom to breathe.

Scorpio is a Fixed sign, while Pisces is a Mutable one. Pisces, as a Mutable Water sign, is able to fill whatever container they need to, in this case, they are able to flow along with whatever Scorpio throws at them. Pisces is able to teach Scorpio to be more flexible in their ideas. This can be a wonderful, fulfilling relationship, one that can’t be matched by any other sign in the Zodiac. Both signs have a sensitivity to things around them in life, and are both empathic signs. Their depth of emotion is very complimentary in this relationship, something that makes their love deep and their ties together strong.

The Male Species-written by a female

Adam and Eve. We knew the existence of a male and female.We all knew they are different in some way or another.Since all of you knew almost everything,what more should I write about? Well, nothing out of ordinary, just some thoughts to share.

1.   Males can be selfish at times.They have the tendency to glance at pretty females. (Females do that as well including..me) But there’s no need to discuss or comment on certain aspects of the lady.No…To them, discussing is a form of ‘group studying’. "Oh ya,my dear, please wear a proper outfit.I’ll buy you a longer skirts tomorrow ok?" Girlfriends out there,familiar with this lines?

2.   Speed are likely to kill.But it will not be able to get the attention of females. Males at common,I mean some males thinks that by speeding fast in their cars are way so much cooler than Brad Pitt.Keep it at bay young men. It’s alright if it’s your hobby.Extra credit for you if you upgrade your engines.(maybe you would consider the NOS as well) But please be reminded that pheromones plays a part in mutual effection, not speed. Don’t be a silly goose.

3.   Next, a handful of males survive in this community by living by this motto of life-one night only.Yeah…There’s no need to deny about that.They go hunting for desperate girls and will be happily and willingly grant these girl’s wishes.There you go-one night only,tomorrow is a different story.They are satisfied but…(there’s a but), their wives are not going to be anything like these girls.They want a goody-goody type of wife.(How contra?They enjoyed the wild, but wants the opposite of wild)

4.   According to some males, fagging and drinking are some of the good traits a male should have as these traits brings them much closer to a successful man.Research has been done showing us the harm those tobacco can cause.Thousands were spent for the ‘Tak Nak’ campaign. But are these all really working?Who cares?-It’s hard to stop fagging they said to defend themselves. But if females did that, it’s degrading.To be frank, most girls would prefer a guy who is anti-cigarrete or having some phobia to cigarrete’s puff.Lol…

Gosh…I hope I’m not the victim of the male population after I post this up.I have the right to speak up,right?All these are just merely thoughts.I know that there are sides of the males that deserves a thumb up.I know there are.We females knows that.So please,please,please…Don’t take heart.If males out there thinks that females are cry baby or unreasonable, then do leave a comment here. Last but not least,it’s ONLY thoughts.

Just The Two Of Us

February-a month which I would say that has quite a number of occasions.Eg: Chinese New Year, Valentine’s Day and of course the day I’m wearing my baby suit. Well,ignore it because that’s not the reason why I started blogging on this.

I fell really sick on the 12th.At the office, some Samaritans realised I was getting pale.At the last hour of my working hours, I finally had to go.Pap drove me to a nearby clinic.The doctor said,"Wow…The termometer reads at 101." I was freezing cold even in a room without the fan on.Ridiculous! That night,hiding under my blanket is all I did.

2nd and 3rd day didn’t get any better.I still felt nausea and my forehead stills burn..Sad thing.Because it’s already Valentine’s Day.We were hoping I’ll get better when evening comes.Nevertheless, we keep the plan going.I’m excited.Yeah…Although some may say there’s no longer much excitement for a going-to-be-four years couple,I deny that it shouldn’t be that way.

So it started with me waiting,waiting and waiting.I wasn’t bothered to get annoyed.I know he’s getting ready.Finally, I got a call from him.He picked me up and then on we went with our master plan.

Tied an apron around him.Yup…You heard me right.It’s a him.Not a her.First,heat the oil.Then,put in the sausages…the list goes on.He’s the chef for the night.I guess rarely anyone is yet to see him in that.After an hour,we finally get to feast on his cooking.For a beginner, seven dishes is really an accomplishment.Mmm…Smells nice.To make things even more perfect, he never forgot about the champange.My first time drinking it.First sip,slurrp…I never know it’s so sweet.All along I thought it’s similar to liquor.I was wrong.

So that was basically part of my Valentine’s.My man with his own effort managed to pull off a wonderful night.The night wouldn’t have end there if it wasn’t the Mighty God.We had to give way due to having prayers for the Chinese.Pass him my hand made card.And we also got another new collection that represents him and me.

Thank you babe for your effort to make this worked for us.Just the two of us.I appreciate it.Love you lots.

Bye cupid! See you again next year…

I Never Thought It would End This Way-III

There he was lying unconscious on the bed.I sat beside him,holding his hands. I called him softly by his ear. I prayed that he’d listen and respond to me.Tears began to overflow down my cheeks.Sobs making my body shake. He gradually opened his eyes and his hands slowly reaching for mine.I told him how much I miss him. He took my face between his hands and said,"Don’t cry silly girl.I miss you too.You know I’ll always love you".Gasping in the last breath,that was the last time he ever spoke to me.Tears flow down from his eyes.I cried so hard.Never in my life had I cry this way.

After the funeral,his mum passed me a note. It was a letter for me from him which she found in his diary.

Dear,how are you doing?I pray that you are happy always.Well,I miss you here.So I thought of writing to you.I’ve got a secret to tell.Remember I told you I was with a girl?I broke off with her already.It’s unfair to her.I have someone else in my heart.Are you going to say I’m bad?Yeah…Maybe I am.Because when you leave,I realise that I still love you.You.But I didn’t tell you.I don’t want to put you in dillema.I know for sure if I tell you this,you’ll feel pity for me.Like the first time under the rain that night.How I wish I can be selfish.That you’ll come back and tell me you want me back.I know…It’s never gonna happen right?It may sound crasy but I just need you to know that I made up my mind to only love you forever.No one else but you.I’ll be there when you need me.I’m your shadow each time you want companion.I promise.I love you.

I sigh as I remember these painful memories,but I didn’t cry.I have no tears left for him.He’s gone now and my dreams have been shattered by the harsh situation.When he left,he took a piece of my heart with him. As I look back now,I see that it was a time of mourning-I was mourning that I didn’t had the chance to tell him I still love him too.I didn’t think the hurt would ever end.

The only thing he ever gave to me that I’ll able to carry with me forever is the discovery of my inner strength.It will carry me through all the pain,all the hurt and I will survive.I smile as I remember him,somehow I know he’s watching me from above and I’ll find myself again.

The end.*Sigh* Love left unspoken huh?So any comments about the ending?Write to me.Thank you.Have a nice day.

I Never Thought It would End This Way-II

At the air plane terminal, I cried bitterly the day we parted,feeling utterly alone. I didn’t know how long I stood there holding him, breathing in his scent with my face pressed against his shirt.I know I didn’t I want to let go. I tasted the salt as I wept, feeling so angry at the world and at life. I had found my love, the one I wanted to be with forever and life had chosen to be cruel and unfair,keeping us over one hundred miles away from each other.It might as well have been 10 million.For a while,I couldn’t eat or sleep. I felt so sick and empty. I didn’t think I’d be able to go on without him.

Love has a tendency to fade.Ours did after a year-and-a-half. We had given each other a lot,including the confidence to grow into our own people and ultimately to grow apart.One day, I just didn’t feel the love anymore. We both felt the slow drift apart yet neither of us really wanted to admit that our fire was blowing out. We had been together for almost four years and secretly I knew no longer.

Although our relationship ended, our connection stayed strong. We have changed and grown. I am involved with someone new and wonderful,and so is he. One day during summer break, I decided to go back home and surprise them.I called him on the day I arrived.But he didn’t answer. I tried again,again and again.Still he didn’t answer.I was a little angry with that.

Two days later I visited him at his house only to be told by his mum that he was admitted to the hospital with critical condition.It seems that he lost control of his car when he was trying to pick up his cellphone under the passenger seat to answer a call.Darn!Was it me the one calling?Is it me?Me?Me? Upon hearing the news,I left the house and drove like a mad girl to the hospital.

Is he going to survive?What does the future holds for them?Read on to the next post up for the ending of the story.It might just disappoint you or surprises you.Hope you enjoy reading it.

I Never Thought It Would End This Way-I

In most teen’s years, falling in love begins with infatuation which most innocent teens thought what love at first sight is all about. ‘Every story has three sides to it-yours, mine and the facts.’ This is my side of story.

            Many years back, I met him on the street on a rainy day just like in a movie. That night, the rain poured like sheets. With what I had with me-my Louis Vutton handbag, I sheltered myself with it and quickly hurried into a phone booth. I was totally soaked. I fidgeted with my fingers, trying to get some warmth by rubbing my hands together and I was shivering down to my knees.

            The wait for the rain to stop seems like eternity. Suddenly he appeared from nowhere. He rushed into the phone booth not realizing I was in there. It was awkward. He asked if he should leave but I let him stay out of pity. I didn’t bother to start a conversation. I was already freezing. What matters to me most was to get home immediately and wrapped myself up with my blanket. Alas, the rain stopped. We went on our separate paths not even taking a glance back.

            After settling down, I dozed off. The sun rays shone through my window the next morning. I was greeted by the melodious chirpings of the magpies on the tree. Feeling drowsy, I pulled myself up, stretched and get of f the bed. After that, it was the same routine of attending classes in college.

            My girlfriends told me that there will be a new student joining our chemistry class. I paid no attention to the news they brought. The door eked open and to my surprise, he was the guy I was trapped with in the phone booth. Out of a sudden, I began to feel butterflies in my stomach when he smiled to me.

            With assignments and chances of meeting up in classes, it’s not surprising anymore that we both gets closer although our first met was awkward. Going into the second semester, we were already inseparable. I could still remember vividly the first time he brought me to the beach. We were sitting on the cold shore combing the sand around us. It was windy and the cool mist coming off the waves feels cold and calming. I was bundled up in his arms and he gently touched my face and kissed my lips.

            They say beautiful moments never last. After I had graduated from college, I had to leave hometown to pursue my further studies. I never had faith in LDR (long distance relationship). So I suggested to him that we break it off. But he insisted that we hold on as long as we could.

Aren’t they lovely as a couple?Hand in hand strolling down the shore…Unfortunately,the girl is leaving.Will she stay for the sake of him?Will he beg her to stay?Will their love at first sight last forever?

*Follow up with the continuation in the next post up*

Have a Seat upon a Cloud

-Yesterday is history. Tomorrow a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why is called the present-

Recently I had been too caught up with life that I left behind my blog writing. And now, realizing that time lapse in an amazing speed, I’m afraid I have too much to say but too little time.

Before I go on any further, I would like to take a few seconds of silence to commemorate the death of a friend of mine around this time a year ago…We could just meet up a few days before the incident you know. But then we let the chance slipped away. For whatever reasons behind that, memories are still intact… (We all missed you here. I know you hear me.) A life lesson learnt. I’m more appreciative of life now knowing that life can be fragile. I cherish every moment I possibly could have with my loved ones, friends and family. Thank you to all that bother to shower me some care and love.

Sometimes when life serves us too much of a hustle and bustle, we tend to forget to ask our friends "How are you doing lately?” despite the fact that we had thought of keeping in touch. Even if she is someone you see everyday in school, you’ll need to take some time to really talk the talk. Who knows if she has something to say-not in the class but just you and her? For instance, if I don’t keep track of what’s happening with my friends, I may be lost the next time I join them in a conversation. So get your cell and call up your old friends and start to make some appointments to get-together. A short absence quickens love, a long absence kills it.

One after another is leaving hometown to further their studies. I befriended this acquaintance for about two months which he became our mathematics tutor but we have to bid him goodbye as he has his dreams to achieve then to teach a group of sixth former students. Lol..Oh yes, my besties left for KL last week to do pharmacist in IMU. Fortunately we were able to meet up the day before she left.

Now can you see how rapidly does life change? Soon after, my circle of friends will also be going their own path of life. Life is a passing event. At the end of the day, the sun has to give way to the night and when we are awake, what happened was yesterday because today is a brand new day. I can see it coming yet I’m afraid to confront it. Life is a gift, and even through pain and complexity, I have learned to respect life and all of its many blessings. In three words I can sum up something about life; it goes on.

Love Hurdles-Been There,Done That

Falling in love can be simple but to defend love can actually be quite tough. There are a lot of ups and downs to go through. The longer you are in the commitment, the more challenges you have to face. However, I’m sure if two people stay strong and have faith in each other, whatever that comes along will just be another passing tornado. But to those who aren’t as strong as they seem to be, don’t let these this challenges tear your love apart. Read further, somehow it is what couples went through in their own relationship.

Stage1 (1-3 months)

At this early stage, the most common problem is communication. I always addressed it as ‘connection error’. Probably because we just started to get going, there’s a limit when it comes to communication. It’s more to ‘think before you say’ kind of conversation. Only the nice and sweet words are spoken out. While the ‘I don’t like’ issue is kept in the heart. Things get explosive when these issue piles up like Mount Everest. And guess what, you end up sulking for days.

Solution: You should have voice out from the beginning. Sad to say sometimes people realize it too late and somehow their relationship was affected. You feel the pain on your own while he thinks everything is in the flow-as a guy, he is successful in the courtship. So lesson learnt, share what you think because a relationship involves you and him.

Stage2 (4-7 months)

Usually in this period of time, we get to know the short comings of the other half. Earlier on, things were in control and the negative points were all hidden up behind the closet. But as we get closer, the truth will be reveal. For instance, he’s aggressive, a control freak…or she’s a cry baby, more flesh then I first saw her etc. No one is able to hide his/her true self more than four months.

Solution: Felt like you’ve been cheated? Not really…Everyone wants to be perfect in front of their loved ones. If he has negative attitude that needs a check, change him to a better him. If he fags, remind him that it isn’t good for his health. Don’t be too hard on him or he’ll never get to be himself when he’s with you.

Stage3 (8 months-1 year)

The matter that arises in this stage is that girls begin to fell neglected. During this moment, guys don’t pay that much attention on the girls anymore. Last time, he used to call often and SMS 24/7 but lately things change. Sometimes not even a text messages from him till the wee hours of the morning although you’ve waited by your cell phone since the whole day. All these can create havoc to your relationship.

Solution: I came to understand that most guys are like that because when they court you, they spend more time on you rather then with his buddies. So now that he has got his hand on you, it’s time to be back with the boys doing what they like to do. Is that acceptable? Well, the guy can do what he like with his friends but make sure he has time for you as well.

Stage4 (1-2 years)

When a couple reaches this stage, the worst thing that could ever happen is the existence of a third party. It does usually happen to couples. When we are seeing someone else, there goes someone offering themselves to us. When we are single, no one seems to be knocking on our door.

Solution: Don’t be caught up in infatuation. The guy may be smarter than your present BF or the girl may be prettier than your current GF; but hold on to your love. If you think that your BF loves you, don’t go for it. Because once you break his trust, I guarantee that you’ll pay twice for it because it’s harder to gain back his trust on you again. It can be a pain on the ass. So look before you leap.

Stage5 (2 years and above)

Although the relationship gets more stable, don’t be too happy about it. There’s one more hurdle to overcome which is ‘BORED’. When two people engage in a relationship for too long, you can’t help but to feel a little bored at times. It’s normal. Same routine, same activities, same hangout place…Who wouldn’t be bored? When this happens, arguments are sure to follow up. Even little little things don’t seem right and pissed you off.

Solution: If both of you always go to movies when on dates, make some changes. Go for a bowling instead. Do something interesting together which you don’t normally do. It’ll help to spice up your relationship.

Well, this is the end of my writing. For those who are in a relationship, tell us if you went through before any of those stages in love and your experience if you don’t mind sharing. As to those who are not yet in a commitment, tell us if you have any better solutions.

I’ll be waiting for your feedback.

My Knight On His White Horse

I expected to meet my first love in a magical way. Not necessarily “Knight on White Horse” magical, but I had a definite picture in my head-tall, brunette, broad shoulder. He would be romantic, smart and very witty. He would be perfect.

One day he did come along, although his perfection wasn’t quite there at first. He was my age and about five inches taller. A mutual friend introduced us. I guess you could say that was where it all started. We became friends. When we grew apart, I never expected to be missing him until one day…I wished to bump into him somewhere and it came true. It felt good. Our eyes met awkwardly but I pulled away. Did I tell him? Oh, no way! I was very proud…and very stubborn. And needless to say, love confessions are dangerous.

But this was different, it felt real. I knew that he liked me. He told me so all the time. I was confused. I wasn’t ready to get committed. It drove me crazy. It started with flirting and finally we were trapped in the moment between our own true feelings. That was when our friendship became more. We were in love. Months passed and our stability floundered. Love is a roller coaster and I must admit sometimes all the turns and twists made me sick. But through everything, we had an amazing and beautiful relationship.

He taught me how to love. He is indeed a person who is resolute in his decisions and he is ever ready to meet any predicament which consequently will befall upon on his head on. Never had I seen him backing down on whatever decisions that had been make. What makes him special is his selflessness. The unrelenting love that he has showered on me proves how caring he is. He also places his friends as part of his top priority, not taking his personal interest into account. His selflessness will always be imprinted in my mind. At times, I might be very mischievous and he being very forgiving will just tolerate with me and condone my misdeed. Nevertheless, there is still a limit to his forgiveness.

They say real love is forever. I don’t know the exact definition of it, but he is as close as I’ve ever come to it. Love has a tendency to fade. Ours did-almost. Coming into the third year of our relationship, he still remains as my first love. We have change and grown. And yet we still remain major priorities in one another’s lives. The fantasy of my magical man has faded, and I no longer search for perfection. I know that it doesn’t exist. What a girl wants may not be necessarily what a girl needs. So maybe this isn’t a storybook ending. Perhaps my childhood sweetheart will not become my fairy tale prince but what I do know is that love is mysterious, beautiful and often times much unexpected.

-‘Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes…just be an illusion’.-

Sudden Outburst

I was sitting here in the room while he was asleep,facing the four walls on my own that my thought began to linger…

Realised that I’m actually such a loser.Often than not,I kept my true feelings to myself and never let it out.I should say it’s my biggest vice.I’ve been trying to overcome it but nevertheless,it’s to no avail.Each time and every single time I insist not to give in…there and then…I failed.I FAILED.Of course,regretting the same time.

How should I say ‘no’ without hurting the other person?How should I tell someone that I need some space of my own at times?That sometimes I’m doing it for the sake of that person but ignoring my own will?No offence to whoever but I really have to learn to stand on my ground.No means no.It’s easire said then done.Show me a sign someone.I’m at my lowest ebb when it comes to this.I’m crying inside.Really…Can you feel me?

Well,actually it isn’t really all about this.Guessed I’m having a sudden outburst.Examinations is just a few days ahead.To be actual,11 days more.I’ve four subjects to cover and mind you,each subject has several chapters as well.It all accumulate to hundreds of pages to read up…Not 100 pages,not 200 pages,not 300 pages but beyond that.I’m really afraid that I’m running out of time.Time is so limited yet I’ve done so little.And again,I couldn’t seem to be able to hold myself down with a book.

What is wrong with me?I need some guidance here.I’m so lost for the moment.As though,everything is going against me.I felt like shouting aloud.Arghh…FUCK IT!

Sorry,that was kinda rude.(Not kinda but totally rude) I’m deleting this post of mine when I get back.It’s just a way for me to vent out the anger in me.But if there’s feedback,then I’ll let it remain here to remind myself that I’m such a loser and hopefully there’s some changes in me soon.Sorry if any of my words were harsh on anyone of you.You know…When the tense reaches its peak point,you go insane like nobody business.Lucky that I don’t use @*#~!!

I need a break! Get back to myself again after rejuvenating my soul.End here…